My neighbour brought me soup…
Tuesday, July 13, 2010
After a comical day of lost debit cards, cancelled karate class, dashings to hand over keys, husband away on business, stuck chickens, a closed library, dentists and toilet training a small person I arrived home with three tired children and a low personal ebb.
As I opened my car door my next door neighbour walked past me towards my front door with a large pretty blue bowl covered by an even prettier plate asking ‘Would you like some soup?’ over her shoulder. She had even brought a fresh crusty baguette. It took a while to get the kids settled into bed and I was so very grateful to have the soup without having to cook it for myself. It was a delicious garlicky one, thick with lentils, crammed full of vegetables and made with fresh roast chicken from the previous night’s dinner (which incidentally Bealers had cooked for both couples) .
We now live in what can best be described as a very mini (or do I mean micro?) intentional community. Our next door neighbours from our previous house in Cornwall seemed to like being our neighbours just as much as we liked being theirs so when we told them on Boxing Day a few months ago that we were thinking of moving to Wales they said ‘Great we’ll come too if we can find a house next door’. After a long search we were just about to give up finding anything even remotely meeting our requirements and would have gone our separate ways but as luck would have it someone told us about two neighbouring houses available for rent – perfect sizes and with wood fired stoves as well as a enormous garden, huge pond, an orchard, small woodland and a couple of fields.
Amazingly we did become the lucky tenants of the small holding of 7 acres with next door timber framed houses and share in a very relaxed way lots of the jobs around the place as well as lots of laughs and nice meals. The three children pedal off down the lane each morning to catch the school bus and at least one parent is here for their return at the end of the day issuing snacks and reminders to change out of school uniforms and to collect eggs from our 12 hens.
Bulk food orders and other domestic chores are done with cups of tea and humour as are trips to local shops and vegetable growing. We lend each other our books, tools, dvds and music, share our views, knowledge, ideas, hopes, dreams and fears and together are beginning to make friends with other neighbours in the surrounding rural community.
We congratulate ourselves frequently about what a harmonious set up we now have but worry about the fact that it may be a hard existence in the winter at 1000ft above sea level and about the fact we are tenants rather than long term owner occupiers of the houses and land.
We feel more resilient than before with our neighbours living here too and look forward to a future filled with many more home cooked meals cooked for or by the next door neighbours who are very much on the same team as us.
Thank you kind neighbour for your lovely thoughtful soup, for teaching me how to crochet and for all the other nice things you do!
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